At some point in our lives, we are faced with challenges of breaking
up with the person that we care about deeply, but no longer love.some
people might want to break up maybe because she have cheated several
times that you canno longer cope. some break up when they end up falling
in love with another person. The question most people ask is how to
break up with the person without
feeling guilty
- ask yourself questions why you need the breakup….
- check if the reason you want the breakup is so strong than the reason you should move on with her….
- Be rest assured you dont really want her in your life to avoid regrets…
- Be sure you are over her and be sure nothing can impress you about her any longer
- Be bold to open up about the break up- breaking up is never easy,
especially when you are consumed with guilt. You start to regret making
all those promises about riding off with her into the sunset.
- stop playing along with her when you know u really need a breakup:Some men feel guilty
about hurting the other person, and torture themselves by staying in
the same situation. This is unfair to the man as well as the woman.
Remember that if the happiness in the relationship just isn’t there for
you, then it’s probably not there for her either – she just hasn’t
realized it yet.Maybe she is too comfortable to make a decision. Don’t feel guilty about breaking up, because you’ll only be saving both of you a lot of trouble in the long run.
- Give her signs: Telling her in person is never easy, but you owe it
to her to break the news to her personally. This means not on the phone,
definitely not over social networks but rather telling her in person.
Also, tell her ahead of time that you need to talk. This gives her a
clue that something is up, and will allow her to prepare for what is
coming.
- suggest that you invite her out for lunch or at the same place you
first met. The symbolic significance of your relationship having come
full circle can help in the closure process of getting over the breakup.
- after letting her know about the breakup…stay off with anything that
will remind you of her existence to avoid fooling yourself begging her
to come back.
- make new friends…hang out with new friends it help erase memory
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