- You are constantly compared to her
It’s nice that he tells you how great you are, but if the statement is followed by a comparison with his rotten his ex was, there’s some leftover angst in him. Whether you are a better cook, lover or cricket fanatic than her doesn’t matter; the fact is that you are being compared to someone he used to date. This is probably his way of considering you his prospect but this makes it more evident that he still pines for her - He still keeps her gifts
The last time you dropped by at his house, you couldn’t help but notice her photos and toothbrush in his apartment. It’s okay to hang on to a trinket from your former lover but hoarding onto her gifts and belongings means he’s hanging on to her through theobjects that remind your man of her. Tell him that this bothers you, and if he doesn’t discard of the stuff, it’s time you moved on. - He talks about her all the time. It doesn’t matter if he talks fondly of her or bitches about her all the time. If he thinks of her, he still has feelings for her. If a guy has come to terms with his break up, he won’t keep whining about it. He’ll get over it.Only a guy who’s constantly bothered by thoughts of his ex would like ranting about it to his present girlfriend. If your boyfriend constantly finds ways to bring his ex intothe conversation without you initiating it, he’s definitely still missing her
- 3 He looks flustered when he bumps into her. The next time you walk hand in hand with your boyfriend and bump into his ex, watch how he behaves. Does he let go of your hand immediately?
- He gets annoyed when he hears that she’s dating someone new. He’s dating you. He’s happy. But if he gets to know that she’s dating someone new and turns into an uncontrollable whining boy, he’s obvious pissed off that she’s doing the deed with someone new. If he’s truly happy with you and has overpowered any strings of residual love, he shouldn’t be bothered if she dates someone else.
- He clings onto his memories. Do you find him clinging onto his memories when he thinks you’re not around? Does he hold something of hers or droolingly stare at her facebook page when he thinks you’ve left the room? Does he stare at an old text from her when you aren’t around? If you see your boyfriend dreamily staring at his ex’s face on his computer while tenderly moving his fingers across her image, walk out of his place and never walk back in again
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